Friday, September 29, 2017

Orange Floral Wrap Dress

Orange Floral Wrap Dress

Orange Floral Wrap Dress

Orange Floral Wrap Dress

Orange Floral Wrap Dress

Orange Floral Wrap Dress


|| Dress: Rebecca Taylor in orange floral (also in sky blue and navy) || Heels: Target || Earrings: Kendra Scott (sold out, similar pair) || Necklace: Tiffany & Co. || Ring: Tiffany & Co. || Photos: Melanie Foster Photography ||

This spring I made a serious commitment to Sassy Southern Lindsey. I truly wanted my blog to grow and flourish, and I knew that would take hard work and dedication. I also realized that I couldn't do this alone. One of the things you might have noticed is my photo quality improved almost overnight. That is thanks to Melanie Foster who owns and operates Melanie Foster Photography based out of Norman, Oklahoma. She is seriously a doll! If you are looking or thinking about booking senior photos, engagement or a wedding photographer, you need to consider working with her. I have also enlisted the help of one of my best friends, Sara! Sara is the official editor around here. She keeps me in line and from helps me not make a fool out of myself! Jered has also been a huge help, he has been supportive of my little passion project. All of that to say, we all need to surround ourselves with people who encourage us, lift us up and celebrate with us when the time calls for it.

This week I received an email that I have been dreaming about for years. I finally got accepted into the Reward Style program! This was my number one goal for blogging in 2017. I cannot believe it! I know that I couldn't have done it without you, I appreciate you more than you know! I am so thankful that we are on this journey together. I look forward to what the future holds for my little slice of the interwebs. Enough talk about feelings, let's get to the good stuff.

Some fashion rules were made to be broken or bent slightly. I am carrying floral into fall, even though this print seems to be strictly for the spring and summer seasons. Until this week, Oklahoma has been a sweaty hot mess! It's so hard to think about layers and sweaters when it's still 90 degrees. Last week I shot fall looks and it was 97 degrees outside. It was less than glamorous and extremely laughable! I am looking forward to sharing those looks with you. Until then, let's talk about this gorgeous Rebecca Taylor orange floral printed wrap dress. Isn't she gorgeous? You can rent her from Rent the Runway. This dress originally retails for $495. I also found the same dress in sky blue and navy that is on sale for $279. One thing I did notice about this dress is that it runs large in the chest area, so double check your measurements before ordering.

I had so much fun while shooting this look simply due to the location, it was like a walk down memory lane for me! We shot in Midtown in Oklahoma City. A few years ago, I worked at a local agency in digital media as a travel blogger. I made friends with so many of my co-workers. Back in the day, we took turns shooting our outfit of the day photos in this same place! A few things have changed since then, we have all different jobs and Midtown has grown and developed. It is so cool to see how things change, grow and develop over time. You never know where life is going to take you.




Tuesday, September 26, 2017

Southern Wardrobe Staples: Flowing Kimono

Southern Wardrobe Staples: Flowing Kimono

Southern Wardrobe Staples: Flowing Kimono

Southern Wardrobe Staples: Flowing Kimono

Southern Wardrobe Staples: Flowing Kimono

Southern Wardrobe Staples: Flowing Kimono

|| Top: J.Crew (fall 2016) || Kimono: Anthropologie || Pants: J.Crew (fall 2016) || Mules: Target || Earrings: Kendra Scott || Necklace: The Mercantile || Ring: Tiffany & Co. || Photos: Melanie Foster Photography ||

A few weeks ago I had an in-store 20% off coupon for Anthropologie. I hardly go in there without one, that place can get dangerous in a hurry. To be honest, Anthropologie is still a high-end clothing store for me (curse you student loans). They have a few items at a low price point, but man some of their stuff is expensive. The thing that keeps me coming back to Anthro is their unique items and the volcano candles (yes, I am a candle snob and proud). They do have a lot of trendy items, but they look different than the other stores that I frequent the most (looking at you, J.Crew). Their pairings and play on texture is so fun and refreshing! Even if I walk out empty handed, I have a renewed sense of how to style my closet. And that ladies and gentlemen is what shopping was intended to be.

Speaking of texture, have y'all noticed that the 90's are back? Crushed velvet is everywhere you look! I kid you not, our childhood trends are back in action. I am embracing this trend one piece of clothing at a time. You will have to keep your eyes peeled for more crushed velvet looks coming soon. First up, this beautiful floral kimono with crushed velvet details. This kimono is very bold, so I am strategic with when and where I choose to wear it. I muted my layering look with black pants and a black top, this look was perfect for the office. I was one of the first people to see this item in the Oklahoma City store. I am pretty sure I squealed with excitement when I saw it on the rack. Looking at reviews online, people are pointing out that it is a bit narrow. I am pretty flat chested, so it didn't affect me as much, but it would be one that you should try on before making a decision since it is one size fits all.

I think that every lady should have a go-to kimono in her wardrobe. Why? Because they add volume and drama to any look with minimal effort! It takes your look from average to showstopper. Anthropologie has a great selection for you to choose from this season in different colors and lengths. You can wear a kimono with jeans, pants or over a dress. No two kimonos are the same, some have ruffles others have tassels, and some have belts! You can find a statement piece that works with your age, height and shape. By finding your dream kimono, you can create more complete outfits.

Since I muted my layering look with all black, I took a risk with bold turquoise jewelry. I also decided to try a bright lipstick, trying to pick up on a color that was in the floral print. This particular color is a Bobbi Brown Art Stick, Liquid Lip, in the color 'Azalea.' I look forward to styling this kimono into fall as the cooler temperatures roll into Oklahoma.




Tuesday, September 19, 2017

Inexpensive Ways to Welcome Fall Fashion


Inexpensive Ways to Welcome Fall Fashion

Inexpensive Ways to Welcome Fall Fashion

Inexpensive Ways to Welcome Fall Fashion

Inexpensive Ways to Welcome Fall Fashion

|| Sweater: LOFT (sold out, similar sweater option) || Skirt: Old Navy (fall 2016) || Heels: kate spade new york (fall 2016) || Earrings: kate spade new york || Necklace: kate spade new york || Ring: Tiffany & Co. || Lipstick: Bite Beauty [c/o] || Photos: Melanie Foster Photography ||

I would love to purchase an entire new wardrobe when the seasons change, but that would cost a small fortune. Heck, I would need a second full-time job to make that happen (and nobody has time for that). Before I hit add to cart, there are a few steps to help me indicate what I want to buy for this upcoming season. I breeze through my closet and take a quick inventory from what I purchased last year. After that's complete, I look at what I have left from prior years.

Here are a few questions that I ask myself:
1) Does it fit my body now?
2) Does the structure of the garment still work for me?
3) Is this still on trend?
4) Does this item bring me joy?

If I answer ‘no’ to any of the questions listed above, it's time to part ways. Here are a few things that you can do with clothing items that you no longer want: give it to a friend, donate to goodwill or local women’s shelter, list it on Poshmark, or send it into thredUP. I am always refreshing my closet to keep things new and exciting.

I found this skirt last year at Old Navy. If I remember correctly, it reminded me of a print that Tory Burch did a few seasons ago. It has a pull-on elastic waist and a ton of color options for top possibilities. I also like that it gives me the freedom to pair it with black or brown shoes. To give this skirt a new look for 2017, I paired it with this great sweater I found at LOFT. Funny enough, I purchased this top earlier this spring. However, I am rocking this bell-sleeved, mustard sweater into this fall season. It just goes to show that you do not need to purchase new items just because the season changes. With a little creativity, you can give your old skirt new life!

I have an extra inexpensive trick up my sleeve for you. This simple thing will transform your look for the new season: lipstick. You are reading that right, lipstick! To be completely honest with you, I have about 10 different lip colors that I stick to, five for the spring/summer and five for fall/winter. One of the easiest ways to make everything look new is by changing your lip color. I had a chance to try Bite Beauty's Amuse Bouche Liquified Lipstick in three new colors. Here are the shades from top to bottom: Éclair (Soft rose), Flambé (Vivid Poppy) and Demi Glace (chocolate Mauve). This liquid formula is available in 18+ colors and is creamy with a satiny finish.

Hey Oklahoma girls, feeling uninspired when you look into your closet? Let's chat! I would love to help you update your wardrobe.




Tuesday, September 12, 2017

Wish You Were Here Skirt

Wish You Were Here Skirt

Wish You Were Here Skirt

Wish You Were Here Skirt

Wish You Were Here Skirt

Wish You Were Here Skirt


|| Top: LOFT (sold out, similar top) || Skirt: J.Crew || Mules: Target || Earrings: J.Crew (old out, same earring, different color) || Watch: kate spade new york (similar style) || Ring: Tiffany & Co. || Photos: Melanie Foster Photography ||

When I am feeling stressed out, one of my favorite things to do is look at potential vacation destinations. My ideal vacation is somewhere with a beach, beautiful sunsets and crystal clear water. I am not a cold weather girl; it's safe to say there are no ski trips in my future anytime soon. There is something about having sand beneath my toes that make all of my problems disappear, at least for a moment. Yet for now, it's that time year when we are all running around, trying to get our back-to-school routines in order. I don't know about you, but I am in need of a vacation. Heck, I would even go for a staycation! I think this time of year is nuts for everyone, so I know I am not alone.

This summer is coming to a close and fall is quickly approaching. I am so excited to share this look with you! When I found this skirt this summer, it was love at first sight. Jered even said I should get it. When you husband notices an article of clothing on the rack (in a positive way), that's when you know it was meant to be. Each time I put on this postcard print skirt, I am instantly transported to a different place, even if I am going to the office on a Monday morning.

Let's be real, I am not afraid of a bold pattern, especially one with numerous colors. Style tip: pair this skirt with a solid color or a narrow striped top (to keep things simple). You can take your pick, choosing whichever color you want to highlight. I paired with a black top with fun sleeves because I wanted the focus to be all about this funky print. Right now, there are only two sizes of this skirt listed online. It's on sale for less than $65. If you are lucky, you might be able to find one of these skirts at your local store.

My top, shoes, and earrings are not available at this time. However, I have done some searching, and I have found some great alternatives if you want to recreate this look at home. First up, I have found an excellent black top with really great sleeves. However, it has a peacock feather detail. I found these great black mules earlier this spring at Target. There is another pair online right now also at Target that look identical, and they are a great deal for $30. I am thinking about purchasing a backup pair; I have been wearing to heck out of mine over the spring and summer. It deeply saddens me to report that these earrings are sold out. However, they still have them available in greenish color, sandy beach.




Friday, September 8, 2017

Orange You Glad It's Game Day?

Orange You Glad It's Game Day?

Orange You Glad It's Game Day?

Orange You Glad It's Game Day?

Orange You Glad It's Game Day?

Orange You Glad It's Game Day?


|| Top: J.Crew Factory in spicy orange white || Skirt: J.Crew in bright hibiscus || Heels: kate spade new york (Summer 2013) || Earrings: Kendra Scott in ivory pearl || Necklace: Kendra Scott in ivory pearl || Watch: kate spade new york (similar style) || Ring: Tiffany & Co. || Photos: Melanie Foster Photography ||

Football season is here, from pee wee to professional, there is a team somewhere out there for you to cheer for! Believe it or not, I was a huge tomboy when I was younger. I vividly remember in fourth grade that I wanted to play football. My parents laughed at all 45 pounds of me, and said ‘no way.’ The thought of being a peewee cheerleader was repulsive to me (which is hilarious because I became cheerleader in high school). Oh isn’t it funny how things work out? My two brothers, John Paul and Jack, are big football fans. John Paul played growing up and Jack still plays for Pawhuska Jr. High. Each Friday, we were encouraged to wear orange to school. This was a Pawhuska thing; the entire town seemed to revolve around showing Huskie pride.

After leaving Pawhuska, I was on my way to Stillwater. If you know anything about Oklahoma State University, it’s all about America’s brightest orange. If you were to look at my closet, you would see a large chunk of orange, black and white. All of that to say, orange has always been an important color in my life. In the south, football is a huge deal. Some would even say that it is a way of life. Being on a college campus during game day is truly an experience. Truth be told, I love the people watching. More specifically, I enjoy seeing what people are wearing.  Based on my experience I would dare to say the SEC is even more intense than the Big 12 when it comes to game day fashion.

Usually, earlier games in the season are hot. There have been times that my friends have even got sunburned while cheering for the Cowboys during August or September. I could wear this look to a game day. However, I would consider wearing different shoes. I think this would be a great outfit for casual Friday or perfect for a watch party. This linen ruffle skirt from J.Crew is available in bright hibiscus and white. Right now, it’s on final sale for less than $35. A lot of the reviews said it is not curvy girl friendly. However, I am happy with how this skirt has worked for me. If you had a chance to run into your local store—I would highly recommend trying it on before purchasing it.

It’s safe to say that I am a lover of classic t-shirts. You have seen me rocking them numerous times here on the blog. This stripe tee from J.Crew Factory is a classic in my lineup. If you love orange, you should consider getting this t-shirt. I decided to knot it with this skirt, just to mix things up a bit. It pairs so well with the classic Kendra Scott Rayne Necklace. If you are looking to purchase this longer tassel necklace, I would recommend a color that goes with numerous outfits, not something that is a flashy statement.




Tuesday, September 5, 2017

Bright Blue Ruffle-Shoulder Dress

Bright Blue Ruffle-Shoulder Dress

Bright Blue Ruffle-Shoulder Dress

Bright Blue Ruffle-Shoulder Dress

Bright Blue Ruffle-Shoulder Dress

Bright Blue Ruffle-Shoulder Dress


|| Dress: J.Crew in byzantine blue || Heels: kate spade new york (Summer 2014) || Earrings: kate spade new york (gift from my sister) || Ring: Tiffany & Co. || Photos: Melanie Foster Photography ||

Labor Day has come and gone. To me, this day has always symbolized an unofficial change of the season. Everywhere across the state of Oklahoma swimming pools are closing. The sound of ice cream trucks chiming with a happy song will soon be a distant memory. Despite pumpkin spice lattes making their appearance, the first day of fall is not until September 22. It's safe to say that I will still be sharing a few more summer finds here on Sassy Southern Lindsey. Summer is one of my favorite seasons; I don't know if I will ever lose that childlike excitement about this time of year. I have been working on fall outfits, don't worry--chunky sweaters will be here very soon. Heck, since the temperatures are lower here in Oklahoma today, I am wearing a fabulous mustard yellow sweater paired with a floral print skirt.

This summer I discovered something significant. You know I love sharing my tips and tricks with y'all. I am all about making things easier; shopping should be fun, not stressful! Before shopping in-store, you should check the online listings. Case and point, this stunning ruffle-shoulder sheath dress in byzantine blue is what brought all of this to my attention. To my knowledge, this particular color was only sold online. This dress also came in chambray (with white stitching) and ivory (with black stitching). I am so thankful I took the time to browse online before I visited the mall. During this particular shopping trip, I was a woman on a mission, looking for a summer wedding guest dress. There is something about this blue color that is so striking. I wore this to a summer wedding that took place indoors at a church, and the reception was at a beautiful barn. You would not believe the compliments I received about this dress. Everyone was gaga over this bold and vibrant color!

This is truly a summer dress since the fabric makeup is lyocell and linen. This garment also dry-clean only, which is a bummer. If you were packing this for a vacation, you would have to consider taking along a steamer to refresh this dress. I didn't have to wear a slip since the dress was already lined. To keep things simple, I paired this dress with a pair of longer earrings. I didn't want a necklace to compete with the fun statement sleeves. This dress almost makes you feel as beautiful as a butterfly. Right now, this J.Crew dress is on final sale for $55 (make sure to use code YESPLEASE but hurry, it expires at midnight).

As much as I love summer, I must say that I am excited about fall. The first Oklahoma State University football game of the season was last week. I am not much of a sports girl, however, I LIVE for high school and college football. I know this sounds weird, but I love watching games at home. Jered and I love checking Twitter for the best commentary. Sometimes I even live-tweet a few games throughout the season. What are you looking forward to the most this fall?